ADHD, autism or a speech delay? How the signs can look at different ages
Parents often notice different things at different ages. Here is what families commonly tell us when they first get in touch.
Ages 2 to 4
Not saying many words yet, or using fewer words than other children. Not responding to their name, rarely pointing or showing you things. Lining up toys or repeating the same play. Big reactions to noise, clothes or certain foods. Constantly on the move and hard to settle.
Ages 5 to 8
Teachers mention that your child doesn’t sit still, calls out or doesn’t follow instructions. Finds it hard to make friends or take turns. Meltdowns over small changes in routine. Slow to start reading or writing.
Ages 9 to 14
Homework takes hours and ends in arguments. Loses things, forgets tasks and rushes work. Marks don’t match how bright your child is. Feels left out, anxious or frustrated with themselves.
Signs of ADHD, autism and speech delays often overlap, and a child can have more than one. A list like this can’t tell you what’s going on. A proper assessment can.